The first component is Cognitive. We must understand what bullying is so we can recognize it when we see it.
The second component is Emotion. Unless our emotions are engaged, we will not be able to step beyond our own self-consciousness to take action for others. The key emotions are empathy – being able to put our selves into someone else’s shoes and compassion
The third component is Praxis. To stand up to a bully, to set in motion activities and plans to make bullying unacceptable, we need to develop a plan of action, practice what we will do, and then put it into action.
For me. the last post is the most difficult. How to be skilled and take action
I agree. Knowing what to do in a tension-filled situation between a bully and a victim requires skill. If you are a person in supervision, be sure to have published well-known steps for dealing with bullying situations. If you are a bystander, look for other allies to give support or get help. Even a tough bully will back down when outnumbered. Take a look at today’s post for more ideas.